Conversations and Stories on Fatherhood
Today marks two years since the passing of my dad. I miss him. A month ago was his birthday, so the last month, including today, I've been reminiscing about him and our relationship. I've been thinking about the last year or two of his life and the things that were said. My dad and I... Continue Reading →
As I've been thinking about life as a father, I've come to a conclusion about the makeup of a father. I see three major components. Part I: Emotional I'm a bit of a closed door, emotionally. I'm working on that and feel like some progress has been made. I am my father's son, though. He... Continue Reading →
This morning, Siri said, “Don’t call me Shirley.” I accidentally left my phone in Airplane mode! It's going to be one of those kinds of posts. Proceed at your caution. I have a good friend that heads up a terrific fatherhood program here in Colorado Springs. Check them out ( Life Network Men's Services ).... Continue Reading →
Children thrive on discipline. As you read that, what are your thoughts? For some, they may hear discipline, but think punishment. There is a huge difference. Punishment happens after the fact, in response to improper behavior. Discipline is before the fact, setting limits that are not intended to be broken. So, when I say children... Continue Reading →
Let's face it, fatherhood includes great moments mixed in with good moments along with moments you would wish never happened. Fatherhood is one of the greatest callings in a man's life. It has transformed me as a man. I absolutely love being a dad and hope that comes across in these conversations. I hope you... Continue Reading →
My son is in NYC and I'm here in Colorado. I miss him. My life doesn't revolve around my son. I've always, and continue, to rank my relationships; #1.God #2.My wife #3.My son. At the same time, it's funny how much a missing piece of the puzzle often changes everything. I miss him. I'm an... Continue Reading →
Why are you who you are? Do you just find yourself here right now and wonder, "How did I get here?" Just as that question flowed out of my fingers on to this computer screen, I was reminded of a song by the Talking Heads. The song was Once in a Lifetime and beyond the... Continue Reading →
“Until you have a son of your own . . . you will never know the joy beyond joy, the love beyond feeling that resonates in the heart of a father as he looks upon his son. You will never know the sense of honor that makes a man want to be more than he... Continue Reading →
“My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, ‘You’re tearing up the grass.’ ‘We’re not raising grass,’ Dad would reply. ‘We’re raising boys.’” –Harmon Killebrew
Who do you fail to see on a regular basis? If you're anything like me, it's probably those closest to you. I'm guilty of this more than I would like to admit. When I say seeing, I'm talking about actually stopping and paying attention to someone. This goes beyond acknowledging one's presence. This is stopping... Continue Reading →
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